Somehow I ended up being followed by - and subsequently followed back - several hundred “social media experts” on Twitter. It’s amazing. Everyone is a “social media expert.” Everyone. I even fell sucker to the whole I-can-get-you-200-followers-a-day scam, which was dumb, because I kept getting more and more “social media experts” that promised to help me “earn extra money and find success.” Totally lame. (Oddly enough, today I stumbled upon a post by Peter Shankman and Sarah Evans regarding this very topic. Find it here. It’s good stuff.)

I don’t claim to be a social media expert. What I can claim is that I’ve had a lot of success utilizing social media and dating websites to meet women and I’ve helped other people do the same thing. This week I’m going to write two or three posts on how you can maximize sites like Facebook, eHarmony, etc., to score more dates. It certainly won’t be exhaustive, but it will get you on the right track.

Today I want to focus on what exceptional photographs can do to increase the interaction you have with women, regardless of what social media or dating site you like to use. Continue reading →

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As a young child, I cared very little of fashion. I didn’t care if my hair was combed, if my jeans were dirty, or what my sweater looked like. I just didn’t want my clothes to itch. What kid can stand itchy clothes?

So Mom and Dad and Grandma and Grandpa would do their best to buy me non-itchy clothes that they felt like I looked good in. I shouldn’t say “looked good.” I should say “adorable.” They loved it when I looked adorable. Whether it was a hat that looked like a pumpkin or a miniature baseball jersey, my parents loved it when other parents would say, “Oh - doesn’t he look adorable!”

This pattern continued for many years. By the time I was a young teenager, I had an undeveloped sense of fashion and, like most boys my age, just wanted to find a way to fit in at school. So I resorted to wearing baggy jeans and sweatshirts most days. I only “dressed up” on forced occasions when I had to take my one pair of dress pants and a colored dress shirt and put it on for some holiday or special occasion. And I hated it.

An extended period of time in college, exposure to both the arts and business worlds, and some mentoring from a distinguished English gentleman has allowed me to create for you Continue reading →

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I can honestly say that I learned more from the first few guys I worked with than they learned from me, and often times this is still the case. Much like a personal trainer or financial planner, you can be given all the good advice in the world but if you don’t ACT on it, nothing ever changes. Teaching men how to meet more women is easy. Teaching them to ACT on the HOW can be hard.

Below is an excerpt from one of my favorite books called The War of Art by Steven Pressfield. He talks about a force that he calls Resistance that, quite simply, keeps us from doing what we should be doing. Take a look at this list… do any of these apply to your life? Continue reading →

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It’s the Fourth of July and also day four of our “First Date Attire” Photo Contest presented by iwearyourshirt.com and The Champ Report! If you haven’t already gotten in your super-fly photo of you pimped out in your first date gear, then you need to do it soon. I’m a huge fan of the dude that’s dressed like a pink power ranger. Epic. Check out the entries here and make sure you’re Jason’s friend if you haven’t friended him already.

So let’s say you’ve scored that first date, and you need to find the perfect place to take her. Below are a list of my BEST and WORST places to take a girl on a first date. Continue reading →

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Good afternoon!  If you haven’t already signed up to win big $$$ prizes for submitting your “First Date Attire” photo at iwearyourshirt.com, then you need to do it soon!  Prizes include $100 gift card from Amazon.com, plenty of The Champ Report t-shirts, and a coveted bottle of Sex Panther Cologne.  Yes, with real panther bits.  Yummy. You can check out the competition here.

Yesterday we learned the five magic words that are going to turn your dating life around:

“How’s the day treating you?”

By saying “how’s the day treating you” versus “how are you,” you’re going to begin to see a difference in the types of quality conversations you’re having with women.

Below are the top five places to practice using the five magic words. Continue reading →

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Welcome to day two of the IWearYourShirt.com sponsorship month! Don’t forget to submit a photo of your “First Date Attire” to win either a $100 gift card to Amazon, a $50 gift card to Amazon, or a bottle of Sex Panther cologne and a ChampReport.com t-shirt. Sweet. You’ll find the contest here.

Today I’ve got some killer information for you, and when I say killer, I mean it. I get really turned off by all the hype that you hear sometimes from dating gurus, so I want to be clear with you that - while what I’m offering up today may sound simple - it’s all substance and pure gold. These are the five words that have helped me have more conversations with women, learn more about them, and ultimately pave the way to dates and more. Continue reading →

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I can’t believe it’s July 1 already! But I have to admit that I’m pretty pumped, even though the first half of the year seemed to disappear before my eyes. The Champ Report is the July monthly sponsor of www.iwearyourshirt.com (check out the July calendar here - http://budurl.com/t3qx), and all month long Jason Sadler is going to be telling the world about all the good stuff that’s going on over here. You can expect some great content this month, some fun contests, and pretty sweet prizes to boot. Like I said - I’m pumped!

Jason and I were talking a little bit last night about “first dates” and the do’s and don’ts that go along with the first time we’re taking a girl out. It surprises me sometimes the basics that guys forget about or simply neglect to take into consideration before and during the date. Here’s a mix of ten do’s and don’ts - all of which I have seen - that need to be considered for a successful first date - and beyond! Continue reading →

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She’s hot. But she’s crazy. And I can’t talk you out of it.

You know what to do, right? After all, you read my last post and I already told you about the drama that will follow if you decide to venture into the Land of the Crazies. I’ve been there, and I know how it feels when there is no going back. Your job is to minimize the damage that will occur after you spend the night as to not jeopardize your job, friends, family, or life in general. Here are some rules to go by. Continue reading →

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Ouch! I got wicked sick, and now I’m behind on the posts I promised; I’ve got to jump into some good stuff quickly. I already had some great stuff ready to serve up today, but truth be told, I have a situation on my hands. A buddy of mine posted a long - and I mean a really @*$@%$ long - note on Facebook regarding his frustration with his ex-girlfriends and women in general. Let me provide you with an excerpt:

“Now onto some juicy and recent stuff: Some girls are just too crazy to be worth any effort. This one girl, who I am quite certain by now most of my friends are aware of her existence, maybe not the situation, but whatever, has caused me a lot of headache over the past couple of months. One day she is beyond friendly and saying how much she likes me and would like to be with me if things were different, the next, she is completely emotional and full of guilt for feeling the way she does. I liked the girl and that was probably a mistake to begin with. She has more baggage than an airport and more skeletons than [most in her closet]…it was just bad news. So we hung out and she started kissing me and of course, I kissed back. After that she has cut off all communication with me and has removed me from facebook. Naturally, I am confused as to what is going on. In the end, I don’t care anymore. She is drama, and I hate people that intentionally start it. She likes to play head-games…never play a player next time. I genuinely liked her, and would have been interested in something for the future but at this point, I doubt I would even wave at her if she said hi. If she ever does read this I’ll just give her one short reminder.”

Ouch! My friend is pissed and who can blame him? There are a variety of ways that you can look at this situation, and I want to break it down for you as succinctly as possible. Continue reading →

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Aahhh yes…  yesterday was undoubtedly the most important day of the year.  Forget Christmas, New Year’s, birthdays, anniversaries and all those other “Hallmark Holidays.”  This was the real deal.  This event was not celebrated with lame cards, flowers, or candy.  No, my friends.  It’s celebrated with processed meats, carbonated adult beverages, and Bryce’s Mom’s World Famous Bundt Cake.  Yes, I am talking about the 93rd running of the Indianapolis 500.

Who won the race?  That is unimportant.  Continue reading →

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